Keep fighting the good fight, I have two girls 5 and 12 both very confused about the divorce final 9/07. My wife is deep in mid life crisis, had a major breakdown about 4 years ago I should have recognized it all more clearly. Now she is dating Steve, and you know what I don't care I love her so much and more than love I am committed to her I just can't stop it. At this point I don't care until God releases me from this commitment I will be there for her, every week when the kids come to the house I put her favorite candy in to take home small inspirational books they go home too, and for Valentines day there will be tulips and an nice card from me and a dvd of family pics from me and the girls. As far as the foot get a massage and I love yoga warrior pose is my fave. All kidding aside do what ever you can unless its a physically dangerous situation to God these things matter.

God Bless,
Michael

Me: 44
She 49
D12
D5
Together 20 Years
Married 15
Divorced Final 9-07 but still fighting