Confusion of a WAW (Thread 6)

I just don't get this Brit. I mean it's one thing for her share stuff with you about OM, but it's another thing when she's actually insulting him to you. Does she consider him her 'boyfriend'?

I have no idea what she considers him - She always says she's just a friend to me. I really don't think she has a clue what their relationship is at all. 90% of what she tells me about him is insulting or derogatory... Maybe that is all for my benefit. No idea.

I think starting with friends is a good thing rather than going straight for dating. Go out with some friends for a few drinks and just flirt...see how you feel. I've just realized that I can flirt again! I'm truly not interested in dating and won't be until at least a D is final...but it is fun to flirt!

I agree - Like I said, I'm certainly not going to be an idiot an jump into something stupid. I just need to find some new faces to spend time with and maybe start doing some different things with my spare time. It's kind of liberating to know I'll have my own place in a week, so I think I'm sort of gearing up for that.

At the rate we're going, if I'm going to wait until the D is final to date, I'll probably be dead first.

But then again, saying I have a newborn and a 3 year old would have them running for the hills! LOL.

Some guys might like the 'ready made family' thing