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Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity SirPrizeMe #1338743 01/27/08 02:39 AM
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,453 S SirPrizeMe OP Member
OP SirPrizeMe Member S Joined: May 2007 Posts: 1,453	Positive things today: This morning I had the strong "I miss my kids" feeling. Just felt it, didn't let it overwhelm me. The night prior I had gone out to a restaurant and a husband and wife with 4 kids sat nect to me. I looked at that family and felt my heart melt. They have what I want, I thought. Fast forward to this morning - that was still on my mind. But I thought about my situation, it calls for patience. I do not need to argue about kid custody or finances now in the short term. I'm going to leave the arguing to the lawyers. I just sent the letter to her. Changing minds takes time. I am willing to wait. after that, feeling hopeful yet patient . saw my kids! Yesssss. Fed them lunch. Played at the pool. Everybody laughed, It was fun. saw a friend at the pool. Told him W and I are having trouble. He already knew. I resisted throwing W under the bus, complaining to him about the affair. I just told him, "we're having troubles." I'm proud of me. No longer playing the victim with everyone. Looked good today. Had a couple of pleasant exchanges with W. M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....

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It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/22/08 10:54 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/22/08 10:56 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	Jack_Three_Beans	01/22/08 11:11 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	palgal	01/22/08 11:16 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/23/08 05:03 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/24/08 07:20 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	Grace_O	01/24/08 07:49 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/24/08 11:39 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/25/08 05:31 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	LooseThread	01/25/08 05:36 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/25/08 03:11 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/25/08 03:37 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/25/08 03:42 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 12:01 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 12:13 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/26/08 12:54 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 01:31 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 01:32 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/26/08 02:16 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 04:10 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 04:20 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 04:52 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/26/08 02:13 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 03:10 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 03:41 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	JMC	01/26/08 03:48 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/26/08 04:34 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 04:45 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/26/08 07:41 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/27/08 02:32 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/27/08 02:39 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	Grace_O	01/27/08 04:10 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/27/08 04:24 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	Grace_O	01/27/08 05:30 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/27/08 07:48 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/27/08 03:19 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/27/08 03:40 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/27/08 04:00 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	angelica	01/27/08 04:03 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/27/08 04:38 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	Grace_O	01/27/08 05:31 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/27/08 05:40 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	Grace_O	01/27/08 06:41 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/27/08 07:02 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/27/08 08:13 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/27/08 10:20 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/27/08 10:37 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/27/08 10:58 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/27/08 10:51 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/27/08 07:08 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/26/08 02:12 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	LooseThread	01/26/08 12:45 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/26/08 02:35 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	mymonkeybug	01/27/08 11:06 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	mymonkeybug	01/27/08 11:59 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/28/08 02:53 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	tmi	01/28/08 03:27 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/28/08 05:47 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/28/08 12:33 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/28/08 03:49 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/28/08 04:02 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/28/08 04:58 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/28/08 05:45 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/29/08 12:56 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/29/08 10:01 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/29/08 10:30 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	01/31/08 03:33 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/31/08 03:44 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	JMC	01/31/08 04:15 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	01/31/08 08:25 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/01/08 01:15 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/01/08 01:28 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	NewHorizons	02/01/08 02:07 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/01/08 04:05 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/01/08 04:25 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	02/01/08 08:38 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	LooseThread	02/02/08 01:59 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	MissH	02/02/08 05:00 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	02/02/08 05:08 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	MissH	02/02/08 05:17 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	LooseThread	02/02/08 08:23 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	brandnewday	02/02/08 08:36 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	brandnewday	02/02/08 08:53 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	MissH	02/02/08 05:10 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	ShadesofGrey	02/02/08 07:23 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	ShadesofGrey	02/02/08 07:23 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	MissH	02/03/08 03:00 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	02/03/08 05:56 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/04/08 10:16 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/04/08 10:31 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	02/05/08 04:41 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/05/08 06:20 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	02/05/08 07:15 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	02/06/08 05:42 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/06/08 04:55 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/06/08 05:48 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/06/08 11:21 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/06/08 11:28 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	Sakaro	02/07/08 01:37 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	02/07/08 03:51 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	02/11/08 05:15 AM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/15/08 06:21 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	RefuseToLose	02/15/08 06:51 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/15/08 07:44 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/15/08 08:20 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	SirPrizeMe	02/15/08 08:56 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	ba065	02/15/08 08:59 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	smith18	02/15/08 09:52 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	InLikeFlynn	02/15/08 11:03 PM
Re: It's the MLC, not the infidelity	smith18	02/15/08 09:48 PM

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