The more I am indifferent, the angrier she is getting.
You haven't seen anything yet,my friend. The simple fact that you are not doing everything she expects of you is a 180. As my teenager would say, "Nice to see that you've grown a pair." I'm proud of you.
As tough as this is going to be, I know you can do it. More importantly, I think you now know that you need to do it for your sake and your daughters.
Later,
Spitty
Yeah, I do know this. It doesn't make it any easier though.
Still picking myself up from my own hole I was in before she did this, and picking myself up from having my knees knocked out from under me when she chose to quit.
A lot of picking up to do. But I have friends who help me now. That's a change from the way it used to be.
Still getting a lot of old wounds picked at while her friend is here. The 'comforting' she does for W, the hugs, the sitting and stroking her hair.
Just like before when W shut me out, and her friend became her 'substitute husband' while I was crashing. Then when W said 'Divorce!' her friend was her ally in helping her 'get healed from all the hurt that bad man did to you'.
Ouch. I think I'll just go out tonight so I don't have to see any of this crap again.
I'll be so much better off when W is gone. Then I can just be with my daughters, and they love me unconditionally.
