I think I feel smothered

[ediemarie]

Hi WAS32 - I just saw your thread today. (((WAS32))) So sorry you are going through this. I would think that knowledge of his A changes things for you. I don't have any insight into a quick fix to get through the pain. Basically you have to feel it. You just have to go through it. Let yourself be upset and let yourself mourn. I don't think you should rush putting it behind you. This is a serious thing. Not only did he betray your trust by having an A, but he lied about it until he was back under your roof - almost like you have no choice but to accept him back and deal with it. That sounds incredibly unfair to me. You need to figure out what you want and then act on it.

I see you haven't posted in awhile, I hope you're ok.

HUGS