Yes Lanzo I was joking! We are more than likely moving out of this house soon, be it separatly or togehter, so no Nursey yet. I have though of that and am really looking forward to doing it. I have tried to take an interest in the baby, I really am interested!!! I have all my baby books to hand (more books!!!!!) She is not too keen on me going with her to the midwife at the moment, because she told me she wanted to talk about the fact that the OM was in the equation and there was a slight possibility of it being his. She wanted to do this without me as it would be (understandably) easier! She has another appointment next week, again she isnot too keen on me coming so I wont force the issue. She knows I `want in` on as much baby stuff as I can. Before our problems, we both really desparatly wanted to have kids togehter. The timing of it is unfortunate, but my feeling havent changed. She has mentioned that she wanted to have a baby with someone she really loves, and at the moment that is not me (and she said it is also not the OM). But she wants HER baby at the moment. As you all said I need to convince her again that I can be her MAN!!
Thanks again, this is really good for me at the moment!!
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
