Sir,

It's OK to have days like this -- we have all had them. I felt pretty much the same way just yesterday, but then I met a couple of buddies for some beers and made sure I had a good time, without my wife.

You can be in this place. You just can't STAY in it. Give yourself "the 24-hour rule," and then snap out of it, and into ACTION. It will have the dual effect of improving YOU, and also making you more attractive.

Choc.