No, it just sounds like you telling him what Soxfan suggested showing him. If that's how you feel, you can act that way and you don't need to tell him anything. He'll figure it out.
But is that what you want? If sex is a way to connect with him, wouldn't you rather make the connection than just satisfy your desire? If it's not bringing the two of you closer together emotionally, eventually you're not going to want sex with him at all, unless you believe in "friends with benefits."
Did the lady from Sidney say anything about when/whether Retrovaille might return to your state? Is there any chance that the follow up sessions, at least, could be there if you went in August?
I hope your weekend is going well otherwise.
Thanks,
Joe
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