Got it. I hear you. What you say sounds so sensible. I waffled on the sending a letter thing, because she gave me a long letter, very angry, full of fear and even paranoid. I wanted to empathize with her feelings. It was an opening I didn't want to ignore or pass by.
Say it with me now: Stop wallowing in the cr@p. Stop wallowing in the cr@p. Stop wallowing in the cr@p.
Running and Choc, I need more of your perspective in me.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....