"I gave you so many chances to change, and I'm not going to get hurt like that again."
Did you remember to say I understand why you feel that way? Or did you get defensive and continue the R talk?
I'm not sure it's such a set-back as you think it is. She is giving you insight into her doubts, that's a big thing and you should stay focused on that.
Originally Posted By: jon2911
The problem is, I agree that DBing is pretending to a certain extent.
It's only pretending if you are only making these changes just to get her back. Otherwise, it takes 21 repetitions to make a habit and your act as if's will become permanent habits.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
