Question-Any good basic advice for me?

[Yoyowife]

It's so sad that most of the time both parties are married with children. They just don't seem to care what they are doing to their families. My H once told me, "I have to be happy too." I said,"Well, I hope you are happy, because no one else in our family is." By the way this just went right over his head. We can talk until we are blue in the face and it won't get to them. So the best thing we can do is to take care of ourselves and our children.

Sorry that you are going through this.