lwb, I've been there so many times, too. I think we start to get our hopes up even just a tiny bit only to be thrown under the bus again.
So sorry, he's being such a jerk! He really needs to take all contact w/ow outside your home. She's also an idiot to think calling your home phone is ok.. UGH!!!
You are so strong but, it's ok to cry... We all need to do it sometimes.