I have come to the realization that I can't trust half of what he said to me
I struggle with this too Cat--I haven't put my finger on exactly what it is that makes it so hard for me to remember that H could possibly lie to me. Even now, after so many lies, I just want to believe that the dishonesty is over and going forward he would never say anything untrue to me, that the lies are finished and everything he says here and now is the TRUTH. Of course I realize just how naive that is, but still I have a hard time with it.
Anyway, just so you know you're not alone in that dept...sometimes I think that if I allow him to lie to me that somehow I'm responsible for his mistreatment of me. But I know that's not true. It's *his* problem to work out. And it's *my* choice how to react, what to do, and every sitch is different.
Just keep following your faith. You'll never end up in the wrong place if you put your trust there.
That said, know that no matter what he says, he'll keep swinging back and forth until he figures himself out. And for you, and your kids, you have to step back out of his path and let him finish this on his own.
