Hope the Maui trip went well. I'm moving on, but still really miss my ex sometimes. I finally talked to here for the first time since August about 2 weeks ago. It was a fairly civil conversation, but she is still so angry and just won't forget about any of the bad things. She says again and again that I disrespected her.
I've started on the online dating thing. It's really awkward and I just can't bring myself to post a picture, which I'm sure won't get me very far meeting anyone.
I'm probably going to move to the midlife crisis board very soon. From what I can tell, my ex is still acting like she is in college. She has the house up for sale now and says she can't afford the payments. Also has all the appliances included, which really doesn't make any sense. I've offered to help out with the payments, so she and the kids could stay in the house. She is committed to selling it. She is spending a lot of time with OM and really forcing the relationship on our daughters. Plenty of sleepovers and kids are very uncomfortable with it. Oldest has come out several times and said that she doesn't like him. Very difficult situation to navigate with them in order the make them feel better and not interfere with ex's life.
