Crossfingers, you sound a bit like me. Now just so you know, we've been at this since Nov 06. I have no idea where we are going now. But I was re-reading some sections in Divorce Remedy and something Michele says rang a bit more for me this time, "if you aim at nothing you'll hit it every time." My point is keep your eye on the ultimate goal. Don't get sidetracked or detracted by fear which manifests itself in anger, bitterness, resentment and such. Have Faith in yourself and your ability to reach the ultimate goal. Faith is you weapon against fear.
Catfan-
15 months worth of patience! wow... I looked over your "mixed signals" thread briefly, and it does seem as tho we have much in common sitch-wise... Wish I had advice for you! But seems like you're doing the right thing..
At this point, being somewhat new to DBing, my plan will be to go pretty much dark for 30 days, and keep my eyes open to see if it's working... here's hoping....
Eric "Fingers Crossed, and working hard!" Me-53 W-43 M-13 SD-16 D-10 S-8 Sep-07/07
