Actually, she had given the kids announcement more thought than the rest of her "plan". I just didn't agree with it. Especially the timing. I'm convinced she has this idea on how everything will "go" and when that doesn't work out the way she wants there will be issues.
major screwup tonight. W came home from a supper with her partner a little tipsy. We chatted a little and man did she look god. She got a little close to say goodnight and i mada some sexual advances....shot down as expected. The art of taking a semi decent situation and screwing it up big time by john210. Now I can't sleep.
I fight the same urge every night (except the last two). You are human. However, try to fight it. Don't give her an excuse to say "there he goes again".
W in a relatively good mood although tired and concerne about the direction her bsuiness is taking. We spoke about that a little. Also, I apologized for my actions last night. I said I saw something in her eyes that reminded me of days gone by. She was a little perplexed with that but did say that she understod how I feel and it's ok. Look at her validating.....I thoght I was supposed to do that. So some serious DB no nos but we shall persevere...no talk regarding D7 announcement yet.
Back to the rollercoaster, my W just invited me on a date.....supper at one of our favourite restaurants.....I will never understand what is going on in her head. She said she will get back to me on whether it is tonight or tommorow night. Either way, we will need to have D7 baby sat at my mom's. Not getting my hopes up as she may cancel outright in the next few minutes. One thing I find a little weird is that tommorow AM. is supposed to be D7 announcement date. Well how is that for a little role reversal. She was out at a restaurant last night with her partner so it's not like she needs to get out of the house. Maybe she actually wants to spend some time with me. I did see something in her eyes last night which I did not see in a while.
no i don't think so (could be Divorce talk though)...we can do that in the house after D7 goes to bed...also, i asked her if she was asking me on a date and she laughed.....but i understand your cautiousness. this sounds toooooo weird to be actually happenning....you guys most think I am making all this stuff up.
tonight is cancelled....postponed till tommorow w came home to have lunch. lawyer called while she was next to the phone...i think it shook her up a little.....i do not think she has any intention whatsoever of announcing to d7 tommorow. i overheard her planning some shopping in the afternoon and more stuff on sunday....nice to see she has me pencilled in for saturday night. her mood in general is changing for the better, let's hope it lasts.
watched a made for tv movie with W and D7 last night. Adoption was ne of the "themes". D7 reacted badly (started crying) because some moms giv up their children for adoption. I have to admit that my W did a good job of explaining things. What I did not like however is that she began to take the discussion to seperated or divorced families. This is not going to be a fun weekend. I noticed D7 is very fragile emotionally. Maybe she suspects something because she was very clingy with her mom. I think I am holding on to the hope that W wants another go at M. Dinner invitaton has something to do with this. I will tell W to be very sure about what she wants before she announces.
