well, all hell broke loose, it is over and done

[BeingMe]

I think you need the space more than he does, Cat! I still sense that you are, in some way, making excuses for him. I don't even think you should be listening to all his spew. You can't help him. He needs a professional C. Gosh! I hope it all works out, but he isn't ready to re-commit ... not by the sounds of it, anyway.