Hi fb2, everyone,

Just got up, the party was ok last night. I saw people I haven't seen for 10 years.

Thanks fb2. This OW issue as you may have noticed I haven't mentioned at all. I am pretty sure that there has been an emotional affair at some point during summer with another woman, although he never did and still doesn't admitt it. I am also pretty sure that for the last 3-4 months this affair was stopped or gone on the "just friendship" mode.

One way or the other, I know he is not seeing anyone right now. I don't think anyone would put up with his work schedule. 6 days a week and on the weekends he either has the kids or visits them(he he!!).

I hope fb2 that your impression-intuition comes true about soon having a healthy marriage. Last night I was talking to old friends and when I would tell them we are separated for 2,5 months, they acted/talked to me about the future. Other men, how will I raise the kids, is he getting married again, am I? etc.etc.. Immediately. No one asked if I thought there is hope, no one about a possibility of a reconcil.
It got me thinking, when you are on the outside, looking our way, we all-trying to save our marriages, must look like aliens.

Well, we'll see.

I 'll have more -hopefully much more to report later...

Take care
Kalni


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009