YeY!!! you did so well :), very proud of you! and congrats on your little girl, 3yrd olds are so adorable!! glad you all had a good day.

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I didn't get any feeling from him that we might be moving forward
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Before you guys move forward together he must get out from the hole he's dug for himself. As I type this my H and I are planning a separation, we've been "piecing our M" for about 2 yrs, H never felt right, he came back too soon. Don't want that to happen to you, I thought I'd be able to make our home inviting and myself the perfect W, but it didn't really take because my H never resolved his issues and we ended up here, with him hating himself for his lies and deceits to me and to ow.

Your H must work on his issues and come to you with a resolve to work on the R with his all, not because it is convenient, he's broke or has tired of the life he lives now. Let me be an example, don't wish him back right now, he is not ready hon.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.