HELP!! my 25 y/o H walked out... maybe mlc? HELP!!

[darkestangel]

Okay, so today is d3's BIRTHDAY! She is officially 3!

This morning, her & I woke up late and I took her out to her fave donut place. Then we stopped by her preschool with treats for her friends. I took her to Toys R Us, and bought a few things, then we stopped by my mom's house.

I got to H's mom's house around noon. We drove to Downtown Disney, to have lunch at the Rainforest Cafe. We walked around afterwards a bit, then took d3 to the Discovery Science Center, which she LOVED. We went back to H's mom's house, and hung out with MIL and SIL for a half an hour or so, then D3 and I left.

The whole day was pleasant. H and I enjoyed some friendly banter and jokes. We didn't have a single cross word between us. H paid for lunch, and I paid for the tickets to the science center, so it came out to about even. H never once beought up OW, for a change, which was good. He did joking ask if I had brought any men into my car, and I said, "I;m not dating any men right now."

Other than that, no OR talk at all.

At one point, he did bring up the fact that I deleted him from my myspace friends list. He kept bringing it up, and I kept sidestepping it. Like, he said, "I told Anthony that I couldn't believe that you deleted me from your friends list." To which I replied, "Oh, did Anthony tell you what was going on at his work?" and just completly sidestep the question. Finally, he directly asked me why and I said, "Well, this is what you wanted. Now you can live your life and I can live my life, and no one will get hurt by anything said online." I said it pretty simply. He seemed bothered by it, but didn't elaborate.


All in all, it was a good day. I'm happy we didn't argue at all, we didn't bring up anything even remotely related to OR or M or S or anything.

I didn't get any feeling from him, however, that we might be moving forward. There was never like, a time when we met eyes and shared a smile, or anything like that. He didn't hug me or show any affection. Not that I'm complaining. This was the first time we spent all day together since he split and we had a great time!

After we got to my MIL's house and hung out there for a while, H looked tired and was yawning alot. I said i would go and let him rest, and he said, "Well, I don't want you to go. I'm just tired." I remembered Dbing, about beating them to the punch when it's time to leave, so I said that I was taking d3 out for ice cream and we left.

It was nice to see MIL and SiL. We've always been close and MIl & I have had some good conversations on the phone since H split.

So that was my day. Better than I had hoped, in terms of us feeling comfortable around each other and enjoying our company. D3 had a blast. No arguing. Not bad, indeed!