Hi Kalni, Welcome! From your thread and posts on others' treads I see that you have remarkable insight. Job stress, deaths and small kids could really stress a M to breaking point and while you are in the thick of it there's seems to be nowhere to turn for relief. I'm glad you are using the separation to take a deep breath, detach, read books like DR, etc. I hope your H does not have an OW as that can complicate things and its invariably the case. But you have come here before things got even worse as happened to me and a lot of others. So looks like you are moving in the right direction now and its just a matter of time before your M is restored to health.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread