Some great stuff there. Going to memorize them all
Ok, here is the latest. I don't know if this is a glass half full thing or a glass half empty thing.
The W comes into the room and starts some general chit-chat.
Then...
W: No matter what We decide to do, I think we will need to move and sell the house.
Me: I am not sure I follow your meaning.
W: If we decide to stay together, we will probably need to move. It would be really awkward if we are seeing Him or (his wife) around the neighborhood, the pool, etc. Don't you think?
Me: I hadn't gotten that far to even think about it. (But yes, I have thought about that a LOT).
W: And if we don't stay together, we would have to sell the house, right?
Me: I dont know... wait a second. W, as long as there is a 3rd party in our marriage, and until you give him up for good. I am not going to talk about "what-ifs" with you.
W: He isn't. (This is a BIG LIE.)
Me: Well, like I said, as long as there is a 3rd person in our marriage, I can't tell you what I am going to do if this thing ends.
That was about it. We watched some TV for about 5 minutes in silence and then she left the room.
So, one part of me is thinking that this is good. She is saying to herself that we will need to move if we stay together. I like that. Heck yeah I would be open for moving. Too many bad memories here. But, the other part of me is thinking she is fishing for information about what I might do if we split up. I know she is a cheater and a liar, so I don't trust anything that comes out of her mouth.
Anyway, I will go to be sleeping good tonight know I got to use a little bit of what I learned in this forum What the future holds, I dont know. At least I will sleep a little better tonight.
