"shock and awe"? Is that something British? I could use some of that. Wow, what kind of msg. was your W trying to send you last night? Quite a change from the frump she was last month.
I really think it is going to be a big positive when you get into your new house. I agree though that you have to let your W see what it will be like if you get a D.
I have to ask, is the other man good looking at least? He must be pretty hot physically because he sounds like a huge loser. Your wife must be hung up wishing for someone young and thrilling. Too bad she doesn't realize what an awesome guy she is putting through heck.