Oh, yeah - I was talking to my IC the other day, and she gave me something I liked.

I was talking about my marriage, and how W seems to want to paint it all black. The accusations of long-term abuse are tough to hear. I know it wasn't true. She said, "isn't it interesting that two people can have such different views of the same marriage?"

Counselors are so wise. The point is, just because W is sh!tting all over our shared history, doesn't mean I have to agree with her. Actually my marriage was a beautiful thing. No matter what she says now. A joy and a blessing and a gift (warts and all) and i will not change my mind about that, no matter what the Alien says.

So there.