I wish my W would hurry up and get that fog cleared, at least for a moment, and come talk to me. I have a couple of speeches ready to go that I want to try out. The most important one being, "I love you, don't want a divorce, I am patient (but not without limits) - I am ready to talk about the M and start healing as soon as the OM is out of the picture without exception. Oh, you are not ready for that? Then we have nothing to talk about."
Guess I am too optimistic to think that fog will clear up soon....................
