So, I don't really know my status at the moment. Although being in limbo is better than some other situations I could be in.
H had the real, sit-down interview in Omaha last night. It lasted 6 hours! He had lunch with the guy, and spent the rest of the work day talking with him. Every so often the guy would step out for a conference call or meeting and H would text me. He said it was all going great he just had to decide if he wanted to make the leap. Since he complained in the past I wasn't supportive, I replied,
"Whatever you decide I will love and support you 110%".
Of course that doesn't mean I will move with him, I don't know that yet, but I will still support him. Then at 7:45 he went to dinner w/his parents and didn't head for home until almost 10.
I was trying to go to bed in Ds room at 11:30 but as soon as I opened her door she stirred and started to cry. Why is she a light sleeper all of a sudden??? So I went out to the couch. I had already left H a note that he could have the bedroom and I'd be in with D.
H texted me at midnight he was 30 min. away and had stopped for caffeine to wake up. I replied back something light-hearted and went to sleep. I must have been super groggy when he got home, having just fallen asleep I get disoriented. All I remember is he came out to the couch and told me to take the bedroom, he'd sleep downstairs. I was too tired to think and DB so I said, "I'm fine right here on the couch. I don't know what is so disgusting about me that you can't even get into bed with me." I think that's what I said, it sounds about right.....
He answered back, "Then just come to bed and lay in there with me. We can sleep together." Well, sleepy or not I was crabby that I had to argue him into it. So I said, "No, I am asleep already. Leave me here." Next thing I remember it was 5:20 and I get up at 5:45. I remembered him saying I could come in the bed so I went in to lay down. He was in the middle of the bed. I realized S was sleeping with him!! Crap! He must have gotten up in the night.
So I squeezed in next to H, facing outward. He actually rolled around and basically spooned me. No arms around me, but legs up behind mine....When I got up 15 minutes later I remembered that I had texted him an invite for a night of hanging out together this weekend. I haven't done that for a long time so I thought I'd try it. I asked, did you think about my invite last night?
He said, "Yeah, lets do something Saturday night." I asked, "Do you want to get a sitter or should I rent a movie for after the kids go to bed?" H said "Let me think about that part." I said okay, but to let me know by this afternoon bc I need to call the sitter for tomorrow and it is short notice.
So it is 4:30 and I haven't heard a thing today. I was busy at school all day so no big deal. But I checked my phone, no missed calls or messages. So I guess just get a movie since I haven't called a sitter??? And I don't know what H is doing tonight.
I actually did a "Do something different" this morning. I texted him that I thought he should go out w/his buddy Jordan tonight for a couple beers (notice I did NOT say all night!!). I said I knew he would miss Jordan if he moved to Omaha (he is 99.9% sure he will take the job) so he should spend time with him now.
Do you think that was good? It is kind of like sending him into Temptation Island in a way I guess, since when he goes out w/Jordan he has been staying out all night lately. Although on the other hand if he stays out all night again tonight after saying he wouldn't ever do that again, I will know where I stand. But he hasn't replied to the text either way, so I don't know what he is doing tonight.... Talk to ya later, time to pick up the kids! But he hasn't replied to the text
