My wife is a bit of a feminist also, and has a tendency, I believe, to see sexual relations as another form of male dominance.
Well, then, she should tie your ass down to the bed sometimes and exercise a little dominance of her own. If she thinks it's all about male dominance, she's not doing it right.
Sorry, I am just so *over* women with this attitude. I'm a bit of a feminist too. Sort of. Just not that kind.
None of that was helpful, but hey .... welcome aboard!
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