Mojo, why are you saying he assisted you in having orgasms? I'm assuming you had a "hand" in it, and could just as easily have had them without him?
The exclusivity thing makes no sense to me at all either. What LFL said.
I was in an internet R with a guy and we used to send each other THE MOST explicit erotic emails you can possibly imagine. Both of us were turned on by exactly the same things. He was a very good writer, and these vignettes were hothothot. We must have exchanged ~30 of them. (I still have them but haven't looked at them in years.) Then we met in person: a total disaster. We liked each other. He was cute, but well, he couldn't... you know, and in fact jumped up out of my bed and ran to his car and drove away on the second day because he was convinced I HATED him because he couldn't... you know. It was weirdweirdweird. On paper... on the phone, we were great. In person, fizzle. Just take your own advice and don't put too many eggs in this basket, k?
