HDog, very funny and thoughtful post! Thanks. Incidentally, I looked back at your earliest posts and found them interesting. My wife is a bit of a feminist also, and has a tendency, I believe, to see sexual relations as another form of male dominance.
Originally Posted By: hairdog
Also, think about this: why would you want to have sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you?
Well, the truth is, I don't. Sex with her became unsatisfying long ago, because it was clear that she wasn't into it. Basically, she wants it over with ASAP. And when it is over with, I'd find myself asking, what the F what that all about? Which made it less likely for me to initiate. Honest, going back to the old days(assuming my longterm memory is not just fantasy), I really never viewed myself as an incompetent lover.
