trying, i don't know your whole story so I'm in no position to Adequately give advice.
BUT.
yes, if you cross the line (or even get close) you will know, and you will be wrong and yadda yadda yadda.
my H was always the LD and also he is the one who had an A. I completely understand the irony you experience in this circumstance, so I feel I can understand you here, sistah.
I went back to work after the A, and I interact with a lot of men who seem to find me attractive, and a minor few are downright on the line of Inappropriate, and I don't mind as Much As I Should, b/c I'm not getting that Kind of validation at home. But I have not crossed any line.
And before I do, I will leave my H.
(Not that I'm planning that, or saying I am, or will, or want to, or youknowwhatImean)
But don't cheat. Be honest. Tell him what you need. If he can't won't work with you in ANY way whatsoever, you will know if/when to walk away from that M.
Then and only then.
you know?
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
