I am with you in letting everyone know and bringing out to the light of day. But in my case it didnt make much of a difference, hence his work is MACHO/JEWS (no putdown intended)if anything his bosses seem to be encouraging him and even trying to set him up w/ yet another OW!!!
This is my unique situation though!I think men will tend to stick together anyways and plus I am sure my H has bad mouth me enough..
