(Mojo) He can't figure out how things work at my crazy store where the cow gives away the milk for free, demands to be paid for grooming priviledges and doesn't care whether her *ss is branded or not
Unless he's for some reason desperate to be in an exclusive relationship, what's to figure out?
or he's just trying to insure that he gets some real life action in a couple weeks -lol.
That's independent of being exclusive.
Mojo, I was involved in an LDR much like you and FSG for most of a year (for gawd's sake, get a webcam!). During that entire time we were never exclusive and in fact, we encouraged each other to date, discussed our dates and helped each other get dates. I was as needy an SOB as you can possibly imagine that whole stretch but being exclusive made no sense even to me.
Even now I wouldn't push a local R to be exclusive as fast as he's pushing you. It really makes no sense.
I expect you'll blithely conjure a dozen reasons why his rush-to-exclusivity is as natural and innocuous as mother's milk, so I'll quit banging the drum.
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