There has been thousands of minutes of phone calls and hundreds of txts each month and numerous times been at her place but H says no ow/EA/PA and maintains he has done nothing wrong. Gotta believe him right? I don't know if it's still ongoing, I know they have contact.
I have a thread in Hopefulness, never been sure where I really fit. Anyway, thanks for your thoughts, I really appreciate it.
OK, so in other word, there is OW. I read a bit of your thread today.
Have you ever checked out marriage builders? You might read some of what they say about infidelity and try a "Plan A" if you haven't already. I really like a lot of what Dr. Harley has to say on the matter about primary emotional needs, etc, but I never was "Plan B" type girl. Read up on it if you get time and let me know what you think. A good plan A with a time limit for moving to Plan B might just work in your case.
BFM
It's pretty good advice.
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
I don't know if it's still ongoing, I know they have contact.
