Originally Posted By: Just_Me

It was worth a shot because no where else would she tell it truly like it is. If she had said, "I keep fighting back the desire to reconcile with Brit" it would give you staying power


I did read something along those lines from back in November - Basically "I love H, but I'm confused". Actually, pretty much every reference to me was positive during November. Since then I apparently don't really exist.

Originally Posted By: Just_Me

or if she had written, "I can't wait for Brit to get the heck out. I'm worried he thinks we can try again and that is never going to happen", it might give you the wherewithal to drop the rope more. It was really an opportunity. Personally I'm glad you didn't get either one of those.


Didn't see much of that. In fact, for the last six weeks or so she didn't even write about me at all. Every day was 'OM did this, OM did that - blah blah. I don't think he wants a R with me". Yeah, six months after she starts hanging out with the guy and she still doesn't get the message.

I've not spoken to W at all today - Resisted the temptation to IM her from work. I'll probably have to call her later to figure out who is going to pick up D, but I'll see if she IMs or calls first.