Actually some of the times that have p*ssed me off the most is when you've quoted back something I've said to you...it aggravates the crap out of me but is always timely. When I'm down, it's not about what I "want". It's about whether or not someone is MOVED to say something to me. If they are, then they should no matter if I bite back at first. Those that posted to me at the beginning of the year when I was back at rock bottom made a difference but of course the biggest and most effective kick in the pants came from Upstairs. I've been cruising for this place for months. I'm hardheaded. That's why hard heads post to me.