Amy, you are on that subject that we all really struggle with, wedding rings. I've at time put mine back on but honestly it's been in private or when I know I'll be by myself even out in public.

I do at time feel like a fraud without it on. We are still married in the eyes of the law and God. Yet she removed hers right after she got back in the car at Gatwick airport on Nov 8, 2006. Last weekend after I picked up the girls she took down our wedding portraits. She really is distancing herself more and more.

Yet I feel like in order to lovingly detach further I must keep that ring off amongst other things. But this is just me.

For you, do what is best for you and don't let anyone else control or influence you against what you and God know what is best for you.


If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06