Status 2 - W friendlier but still very distant

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Hi Naey, Thanks for stopping by; it sometimes gets very lonely here. I will catch up with your sitch later. But meanwhile ...

My H is still in the extremely hostile stage and it has been 8 months since we separated. Don't know what to do with that, although I do still let him push my buttons and react more than I should.

I found it hard to get over this hump because she used to jam hard and the hurt caused me to react but if you try it once you gain momentum and it gets much easier.

So is OM still in the picture, or do you know? Do your children know that a D has been filed and that it is a possibility? I was just wondering b/c my kids are having a hard time with all this.

OM does not seem to be actively in the picture of late. Lots of people came to know about OM, including her mom, so I think that shamed her into backing away from him. The kids know about the D I have talked to them about it a lot initially that it wasn't my choice and I will give them all I've got. S7 does not seem to be affected much (he talks of dad's house and mom's house) but D11 is much deeper; she was very hostile to me earlier but is more loving now - I have to continue to show her much love.