I think it has to be. If it was easy then it wasn't worth anything. The pain you go through is coin you pay to be firm in your resolution and determination of your decision. Without the pain, it would be easy to change your mind, to waffle, to compromise.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
