Originally Posted By: Dom R

If living together is showing some improvements in the way she treats you... then it doesnt seem sensible to rush to not live together.


Maybe, maybe not - At this point, if I tried to stay longer she'd probably see it as a stalling and pursuing tactic...

Originally Posted By: Dom R

It sounds to me like living together again, has slightly improved her treatment and attitude towards you.


I'm not sure if anything has really changed - We DO spend a lot of time together and W isn't going out of her way to go out and do stuff with friends/OM (she's been out twice in two weeks, maybe for a total of five hours). How much of that is to do with me living with her, and how much is to do with other things going on in her life is anyone's guess.

Originally Posted By: Dom R

You were living separately a few months ago: did that really HELP? or make her nastier towards you?


The week before she moved out she was VERY angry. Pretty much the entire week she was out of control, crying, depressed and drinking a lot. After she moved out, things improved a lot between us, but around mid-December they got more stressed again. We spend time together even when we're living apart, so I don't think it's significant if we are living together or not - I believe that her experience with me over the last couple of weeks have been very different to what she expected and I'm not sure at all where her brain is at right now.

Originally Posted By: Dom R

Now since you've moved back.. has she been worse, about the same, or better towards you?


Things have been pretty good, but again, I don't know if that is related to me living there, or because of something else. I know she was really upset and stressed the week before I moved in - She's certainly not exhibiting that behavior anymore. In fact, since we started living together again, we've not had a single disagreement (that is, one that could escalate into anything
- we obviously don't agree on everything), fight or argument. W is very pleasant around me, but I'm not sure if that is how she really feels, or she just doesn't want to rock the boat.