Quote: Who says you "cannot get mad" over all of those things??? Not me! Go right ahead.
does me no good to get mad about these things wether I'm justified in being mad or not...expressing any of my frustrations over theese things will lead us right back to the past..."no matter what I do, it's just not good enough..you'll never be happy"
Quote: I think your H needs to prioritize a bit. Okay so the work is really heavy this time of year. Granted. But your own yard...come on! Is it really so decrepit that he has to be out there every evening???
he is after all a landscaper...that old saying the cobblers child goes shoeless...doesn't exist in this house..we have a golf course for a lawn and that takes some effort. plus the clean up and all the trees he's taking down...now that area has to be cleaned up etc...he's a perfectionist..
Quote: Why not just have a 'lil negotiation. How about one or two nights a week when the yard just "breathes". And LL and kids get more H time?
