To revisit the DB mantra, of

"keep doing what works, stop doing what doesnt work".:

If living together is showing some improvements in the way she treats you... then it doesnt seem sensible to rush to not live together.

It sounds to me like living together again, has slightly improved her treatment and attitude towards you.


You were living separately a few months ago: did that really HELP? or make her nastier towards you?

Now since you've moved back.. has she been worse, about the same, or better towards you?

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle