Status 2 - W friendlier but still very distant

[not an ex yet]

Hi fb2,
I just read quickly through your sitch and I am right there with you. It sounds like you are making progress and W does not seem to be too anxious to get D over with.
My H is still in the extremely hostile stage and it has been 8 months since we separated. Don't know what to do with that, although I do still let him push my buttons and react more than I should.
Anyway, it seems to me that if a D is really what they wanted, they would just want to get it done. I would like to think that it means that they are unsure. My H still says that he is sure a D is what he wants but he has not done anything (that I am aware of) to get the ball rolling. Says he is too busy.

So is OM still in the picture, or do you know? Do your children know that a D has been filed and that it is a possibility? I was just wondering b/c my kids are having a hard time with all this.

I don't have alot of advice for you, I just wanted you to know I am here and will throw in my 2 cents when I can.