I really do think LD is a manifestation of emotional withdrawal rather than a genuine drive issue.
I totally agree. Funny how if they want to, LD people can have sex as much as the rest of us. Just got to break through that emotional wall.
This is also why I think detachment and differentiation is working against the goal of having a better M. You can't detach and have more sex. So why would people be working so hard on detachment on a SSM message board. That doesn't make any sense to me.
