Hairdog her point of view, which is that physical intimacy is not an essential element in a marriage, and that the "norm" is that most couples do not have regular sex. Well HD, your W is right. BB can site TV programs to reinforce that view and newspaper adds for real estate that feature two as in HIS and HER master bedroom suites.
If you want, BB can e-mail Ms. HD the advertisements. :Serious eye roll from Lou:
My take is some W’s want to be M but want the M to be more like room mates, not lovers.