It's interesting to me how your sich is kind of mirroring the sich of my Type 4 sister. She basically has 2 BF's now because she's still friend/housemate/pet-parent with her X but she's having the hottest sexual romance of her life with her new BF. So maybe that is what will happen for you.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver