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I would take MIL up on her offer and drag H out to a nice dinner. Make it an opportunity for you to shine, LL!


offer taken, mentioned it to h, h's repsonse...that would be a good idea we can get dinner or catch a movie or something..it would be nice to spend the time before you go away (or some version of that sentiment)

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Since you're going to shop for a couple of bathing suits, offer to show them off for H after the kids have gone to bed. Who knows, it might lead to something!


sounds like a great idea...though I think it may just go over his head...worth a try anyway..that would be a lot less humiliating then putting on some langurie and being rejected.

LL