He has been texting me, IM'ing me incessantly. Not about the house planning (I actually think he is avoiding that because he knows that with our current situation, it is sensitive) but about random things and his mom's eating habits (did I already mention she is a closet eater? pretty bad) Also, he told me that they were eating dinner at the same Steak and Shake that me and him had eaten at one time on our way to Disney World.
I've been responsive and pleasant. I've been talking to one of my DB friends off line (don't even remember her DB screen name anymore! ) who has a very similar situation and we agreed that making H feel guilty was NOT the way to go b/c he doesn't handle guilt well at all.
It is hard though, guys b/c I feel roped back in when I talk to him. But, if my intuition is correct, OW and H butt heads alot. I've always been easy going (to a fault), but have a feeling he is seeking me out lately...not only for familiarity but for relief. I hope that I'm right b/c I think that would be a turnaround for him (him no longer just seeing the bad in our relationship but starting to see the good in it again too)
