Where exactly is your H living now? Did you guys setup a schedule for your D's yet, or do they stay with you every night?
H is staying in an apt. w/ a coworker who is also going through a S w/ his W. (His sitch is actually much worse than ours.) H has pretty much been sleeping there for the last month and a half. Hasn't move anything there and isn't paying any rent that I know of. We still have a joint account and direct deposit. H stops by every evening get stuff for the next day.
No formal schedule in writing. It is unwritten that H spends Tues. and Thurs. evening w/ them while I leave the house and then we work out weekends. They stay at the house w/ me everynight and H comes in the morning to take D10 to school.
