Hiem, Bh,

Thanks for you thoughts.

This forgiving thing has taken me to the limits of my current knowledge. I need to go away and read learn and understand more on this point. I've spent so much time on all of the earlier points on this journey that I didn't think I'd get this far.

Deep down I know I harbour bitterness, resentment, anger and all of those horrible things. I think W knows thinks this too which is why she's already steeled herself by saying "I don't think you'll ever be able to forgive me".

I got on to this point becauae I didn't want to move on without anything being said to acknowledge what we've been through, I didn't want it buried, glossed over or become a taboo subject.

Hmmmm.... forgivness that's a tough one for me because I've shown I don't fully understand. I've been pretty much switched on with everything else but I haven't got this one yet.

Ok I'm thinking, soon to be reading.

Lan