When I walked in the kitchen had not been cleaned up. That is something that normally pos me. I decided to ignore it and not let it bother me. H was kind of out on the couch and looked very tired so I decided to clean up quietly and say nothing about it. H thanked me later when he went out to do it and I think he really appreciated it so I'm glad I handle it the way I did.
It's amazing how unimportant certain things are now, isn't it? Sounds like you're doing well at letting some stuff just roll off your back and not get too concerned with it.
Where exactly is your H living now? Did you guys setup a schedule for your D's yet, or do they stay with you every night?
